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Adazjia Brent

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Dej B. Wikler is a writer, poet, and speaker dedicated to helping women untangle themselves from performance-based faith and discover God in the quiet, ordinary moments of life. Drawing from her own journey through fragmentation, surrender, and spiritual renewal, she offers a compassionate space for those who are ready to let go of self-reliance. When she is not writing, Dej enjoys meaningful conversations over tea, lingering in nature, and spending time with her family. Reflections is her testament to the beauty found in being remade.

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Reflections : Stories, Poems & Lessons on Being Tipped Over and Poured Out by God

Reflections : Stories, Poems & Lessons on Being Tipped Over and Poured Out by God

Stories, poems, and lessons on finding grace when life shakes you open

  • Religion & Spirituality
  • Self-Help

What if the moment everything shifts is exactly where God meets you? For years, Dej Wikler believed transformation required relentless discipline—more effort, harder work, and constant self-improvement. But when life unexpectedly tipped her over, she discovered a profound truth: God wasn't punishing her in the disruption. He was inviting her to let go. In this deeply candid collection of personal stories, honest poetry, and hard-won spiritual insights, Dej explores the transformative power of being poured out. Rooted in the ancient wisdom of Jeremiah 48, she guides readers through three sacred movements: Becoming Settled in our protective patterns, Being Tipped Over when life shatters our illusions, and Being Refilled with genuine grace and purpose. This is not a self-help book with quick fixes or toxic positivity. It is a quiet, radical invitation for women exhausted by performance-based faith to stop striving and start noticing. If you have ever felt life shift beneath your feet, Reflections will remind you that your emptying is not the end—it is the very place where real life begins.