
COMING HOME
An Irish adoptee's search for belonging after loss and dislocation
- Biography
- Parenting & Family
- Self-Help
Born in Dublin in 1971 and adopted with her twin brother through St Patrick's Guild, Ronah Corcoran-O'Reilly grew up between Ireland, Germany, the United States and Italy, never quite sure where she belonged. At fifteen, while at a Bavarian boarding school, her twin, Rory, died in a sudden accident. That grief, and a turbulent bond with her adoptive mother, shaped decades of searching: for roots, for safety, for a voice she could trust. In Italy she found informal mothering with Pina. In Celtic Tiger Ireland she felt like a stranger in her birthplace. An abusive relationship ended in flight while she was pregnant, and single motherhood of her son Keelan became her fiercest vocation. Twenty years in residential childcare and homeless services followed, alongside Reiki, yoga, advocacy, and the founding of Carers Network Ireland. In 2024 her adoption files named a Galway birth father and seven half-siblings, and revealed she was the older twin. Legal closure came when her husband Mike adopted Keelan; emotional peace arrived after her birth mother's death. Coming Home argues that home is not an address or a person, but self-forgiveness, holding contradictory truths, and the courage to keep speaking.

